What is what to do when blackmailed?

If you are being blackmailed, it's a frightening and difficult situation. Here's some guidance on what to do:

• Don't Panic: Take a deep breath. Blackmailers often rely on fear. Staying calm will help you think clearly.

• Document Everything: Save all communications from the blackmailer, including emails, texts, voicemails, or letters. This documentation will be crucial if you decide to involve the authorities.

• Assess the Threat: Carefully consider what the blackmailer is threatening to reveal and the potential consequences. This will help you determine the best course of action.

• Don't Respond Immediately: Resist the urge to react impulsively. Take time to carefully consider your options and seek advice.

• Consider Ignoring the Blackmailer: Sometimes, the blackmailer will give up if they don't get a response. This is a risky strategy, so carefully evaluate whether it's appropriate for your situation.

• Seek Legal Advice: Consulting with a lawyer is highly recommended. A lawyer can advise you on your legal rights and options, and help you negotiate with the blackmailer or involve law enforcement. See the "Seeking Legal Advice" page.

• Contact Law Enforcement: Blackmail is a crime. Reporting it to the police or FBI can be a difficult decision, but it's often the best way to stop the blackmailer and prevent them from targeting others. See the "Contacting Law Enforcement" page.

• Don't Pay: Paying the blackmailer rarely solves the problem. It often encourages them to demand more money or continue the blackmail. See the "Why Not Pay" page.

• Talk to Someone You Trust: Sharing your situation with a trusted friend, family member, or therapist can provide emotional support and help you make difficult decisions. See the "Seeking Support" page.

• Protect Your Finances: If the blackmail involves financial information, take steps to protect your accounts and credit.

• Be Prepared for Exposure: If the blackmailer does release the information, have a plan for how you will deal with the fallout. This might involve talking to your family, employer, or community. See the "Exposure Contingency Plan" page.

• Remember You're Not Alone: Blackmail is more common than you might think. There are resources available to help you get through this.